the thing they didn't tell you when you signed up to have a baby

the cuteness.the crying. the pooing.the feeding.the sleeping.and not sleeping.the giggles. the tantrums.the messes.the messes on top of messes.You knew about these things. You learned them from others. You read about them in books. Your motherly instincts kicked in and you knew what to do. But what about this whole "growing up" thing?Why does no one tell you about that?How does he come out a